Coming to 2year marriage life with Mr Chua. I have decided
to write how I felt so far…
Usually marriage break comes with 2 big issue.
- In-laws
- Love between couples
So I was thinking, if I have problems with my in-laws (I know
he don’t have issue with my mum).
I did cried a few times before moving house that’s because I
don’t want his parents to stay at my house or going against with what I wanted.
But well since Jan 2014 till now, we are still living happily. (And I guess the
6month period duration failed)
Was thinking how it can be possible to live together with no
quarrels AT ALL…. So few points here:
- Husband has to be in the middle with not siding any one (Not an easy task – not that possible)
- Everyone to Give and take
- In-Laws should not be that unreasonable
Point 1: I know he is siding me more than his parents. I
know he is also trying hard to make me happy. So no comment on this, Hahaha..
Point 2: Mr Chua give in more than anyone in the house. I
have to give in sometimes but it will still be in my acceptable range. His parents do give in too. So yup give and take uh
Point 3: Mr Chua has been complaining to everyone that his
parents is doting me more than him. His parents cook dish that I like (Because
they know I’m not use to their cooking or food) Mr Chua also complained that
why his parents scolded him and not me (So his parents replied: You are my son I
can scold ma) HAHA see they are reasonable but with valid explanation
Summary: I’m glad I’m living well. As I was thinking all
this stuff then I come across the thinking of why his parents did not ask us
why I’m not pregnant yet. I know his parents is hoping for grandchildren or
maybe they did ask Mr Chua. Well like this lol…
4:42 PM
Thanks for reading
