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♥ Monday, November 29, 2010 ♥
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很高兴的可以和他度过周末。。!

过这么久,终于可以跟他一起去逛街还买了圣诞礼物给我!

Went expo twice... First with Sharon and Xue Ming on Thur
and Sat with Dear...

Sat saw Bernice Yeo working at Sitex... And Yvonne at Xin Wang (MS)

8:48 AM

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♥ Wednesday, November 24, 2010 ♥
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其实很喜欢待在library的感觉!
In Woodland Regional Library now...!
Accompay my dear come library today cos he got exam tmr...


给了我时间去胡思乱想。。。!

Started thinking:
am i a good friend?
am i a good GF?
am i suitable to make friends?
am i suitable to have best friend?
Haiz... Wat rubbish is this ma....!

4:26 PM

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♥ Sunday, November 21, 2010 ♥
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Did a little boring video for Dear... (Our 40th Month Anniversary)

I think i have no point putting a chatbox at my blog...

Everyone reads and goes like this... LOL....

10:05 PM

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♥ Wednesday, November 17, 2010 ♥
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It's Public Holiday! Yeah...! Has been baking the past two days... And The next two days too...! Yes i'm have been messing up mummy kitchen! Oops Haha... Well....

I'm BROKE AGAIN..! Nothing special to you but yes i'm really broke...
Have not really started my tuition thing... Haiz jialut liao....

Dear dear got exam this two weeks...Can't disturb him... :((
Got surprise for him next friday... Mummy too, she have the share of it too... Heehee


Photos:

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♥ Sunday, November 14, 2010 ♥
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Went Out the whole day...

1st Stop: Ah ma hus (For Make up)
2nd Stop: Conrad Hotel
3rd Stop: Suntec City for Photo Shot... It will only be out next month mid ba...

Will upload the photo soon...! :)

9:15 PM

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♥ Saturday, November 13, 2010 ♥
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Decided to change a new blog link


Locked my old blog and for me to view only haha! *Evil*
Will start blogging here!


Went for a Church Wedding Today...!

then Tmr will have to attend the Wedding lunch!


Well, my stomach really gave me a little problem this morning! Haiz!
Heng i still got pills! Soon i'm able to open a 药房 ba -.-"

6:24 PM

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老婆要知道:老公就是老公,只要去爱,不要拿来比较,不要老说别人的老公如何如何好,别数落他没出息,你是他最亲密的人,你还这么说他,好象不太应该,对大多数男人来说,赞赏和鼓励比辱骂更能让他有奋斗的力量。爱他一定要尊重他,再生气也不可以出口伤人,言语的伤口有时一生都在流血的。身体的伤害很容易治愈,精神的伤害后果是可怕的。
  
老公要明白:老婆就是老婆,只要去疼,不要拿来比较,别说她不如别人的老婆漂亮,别数落她不够能干,龙配龙来凤配凤,漂亮的,你没有福分独拥,能干的,你没有能力享用,更何况“安知千里外,不有雨兼风”?女人天生是弱者,需要男人的疼爱,精神的伤害对她们来说后果将更可怕。
  
老婆要知道:不要摆脸色给对方看,一个生气的女人是很丑陋的。他工作已有许多压力,没有义务回家还要看你的脸色哄你开心。对方性格上会有缺点,生活细节会与你不同,令你不满意,但他怎么可能是完美的,在你面前,他要放下面具,做回自己,做个普通人。宽容是做人和对待婚姻应有的态度。容忍和体谅对方。
  
老公要明白:不要把老婆当作出气筒,一个只会对着老婆指手划脚的男人是最窝囊的男人。老婆是你的家庭花园里的月季,老公应该是特聘的专职园丁,园丁尽职了,花朵就会开得更灿烂。老婆也不是整天呆在花园里的娇生惯养的月季,她也要经历风雨的洗礼,像男人一样面对社会、事业、同事,面对尝试、成功、失败,她们遇到的困难比男人更多,回家还有永远做不完家务等着处理干净,还有孩子的学习、生活需要料理妥当,老公就不能让老婆也放下面具,做回自己,做个轻松人吗?
  
老婆要知道:男人对自己的尊严看得比什么都重要,不管在私下他有多么宠爱你,多么怕你。在人前一定要给足对方面子,让他做天不怕地不怕老婆更不怕的顶天立地的男子汉,他应该不大会喜欢朋友们开玩笑取笑他怕老婆。除非他有足够的强大后盾和高高在上的身份,可是,我们大多是普通人呀。
  
老公要明白:女人也是独立的人,也有自尊。妇女翻身得解放的口号已经喊了半个多世纪,为什么还得做二等公民呢?尊重对方和维护尊严是互动的,不是靠单方面的努力就能实现的。男人为什么不能想想,虚荣的男人才需要虚伪的自尊啊,只有塌实的男人才能得到他人从骨子里产生的尊重。
  
老婆要知道:老公的父母就是自己的父母,将心比心,爱屋及乌,老吾老以及人之老,只要内心深处真正感到这就是我自己的父母,心理上对老人依恋亲密,老人回感受到这份真心的。何况,人老了很象孩子,只要象哄孩子般哄老人开心就好了。我们自己也有老的一天。
 
老公要明白:老婆也是父母心头的肉,也是父母一把屎一把尿拉扯长大的,也是父母含辛茹苦培育成材的。老婆嫁到你家就该甩掉亲生父母来专心孝敬公婆吗?你有没有也用同样的思维方式来将心比心,爱屋及乌,尽你半子的义务呢!

6:20 PM

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